Frequently Asked Questions
Are you guys a sex or dating club?
Nope. There are plenty of apps for that. We try for networking, long-term friendships, and meaningful connections.
What are events like?
We all remember how hard it was to come to the first event. Not knowing anyone, the pressure of staying for a couple of hours, what if it’s awful?
Yeah that actually sounds scary.
It is! That’s OK. Do it anyway. Once you meet our friendly, approachable group, you feel more comfortable.
On your first and second events, you’ll be introduced to the group and, if the format allows, be given a chance to mingle and chat with our members, who will show friendly curiosity about you.
Is there any cost to join?
No, membership is free, and we believe cost shouldn’t be a barrier for our members to participate in events. Sponsorship is available, please speak to a board member if cost is a problem.
Likewise if you are so fortunate to give, please consider a monthly donation which helps us continue operating and growing.
There’s someone in the group I dated once, or don’t like.
It happens, just remember we’re grown-ups. Please settle your drama before participating.
I’m not a gay, bi, or trans man.
No worries. We have resources available for many groups, and we never police gender or sexuality at our events. At the same time, the space is meant for gay and bi men, and trans and non-binary folks. Please respect the space and our intentions.