Are you guys a sex or dating club?

Nope. There are plenty of apps for that. We try for networking, long-term friendships, and meaningful connections.

We’ve seen romantic relationships form within the group, and we love to see it happen, it’s just easier for those sparks to happen when the pressure is kept low. 

What are events like?

We all remember how hard it was to come to the first event. Not knowing anyone, the feeling of obligation to stay for an hour or two, what if it’s awful?  

Yeah that actually sounds a bit scary.

It is! That’s OK. Try it anyway. Once you meet our friendly, approachable group, you feel more comfortable.

On your first and second events, you’ll be introduced to the group and, if the format allows, be given a chance to mingle and chat with our members, who will show friendly curiosity about you.

Is there any cost to join?

No, membership is free, and we believe cost shouldn’t be a barrier for our members to participate in events. Sponsorship is available, please speak to a board member if cost is a problem.

Likewise if you are so fortunate to give, please consider a monthly donation which helps us continue operating and growing.

There’s someone in the group I dated once, or don’t like.

It happens, just remember we’re grown-ups. Please settle your drama before participating.

I’m not a gay, bi, trans man. 

No worries. Our resources page can link you to other groups in the area. We don’t police gender or sexuality at our events. At the same time, the space is meant for gay, bi, and trans men, and the non-binary folks who would join us. Please be respectful the space and our intentions.